I take people for face value, how they treat others, how they treat themselves, their actions, their values. I don't judge people based on perception EVER; if I don't know you, I don't have the right…heck even if I do, I don't judge. People teach me who they are and I listen and learn.
"So, I gotta stab her 3 times?" When a situation is being OVER complicated.
I think we've established that ka-kaw, ka-kaw, tookie, tookie, don't work — when it's clear we need to find a new path