“Coughlin’s law: never show surprise, never lose your cool.”
I’d like to look back on my life with an immense sense of accomplishment, that I did “stuff” that mattered, raised mindful children, lived sincerely, and I made a difference.
Take responsibility of your life. Ask yourself, “What are the ways I could have done that better.” Seek understanding, ask for wisdom, and be humble. Whatever it is we choose, try to be the best at it.